Trey Gares: A Friend I Probably Did Not Deserve

A music scene is lucky to have a room that serves as its training ground, proving ground, breeding ground, epicenter, and clubhouse. In my tenure in the Washington, D.C., alternative independent hardcore arts and lifestyle community, I’ve seen a few such spaces emerge. In the earliest of the 2000s, the Kaffa House was that place. In 2010, the Corpse Fortress was D.C.’s underground sanctuary for the wild and free. And between the heydays of those venues there were a few years where the best, most consistent, and most welcoming venue for the kids, the vets, the curious, and the freaks was the U-Turn. I made more of the most important friendships I currently cling to inside of that weird venue above U Street than anywhere else in the world. And one of the many friendships that began in that usually cool, often funny, and occasionally violent mid-size room was the one that I formed with Trey Gares from the Unabombers — a band that was a consistent force in the Norfolk / Virginia Beach region for more than 20 years.

Lackluster, Newish Star, Secret Tombs, Laughing Man

While I was waiting for the show to begin, I was treated to a discussion of Morrissey and his autobiography. One person described him as a “smug racist.” I’m kind of perplexed as to why Steven Patrick Morrissey is so popular among fans of punk music. I’ve heard the Smiths and have even given them my best listen, but I just don’t like his voice, though I appreciate the sentiments expressed by some of his lyrics. Such considerations were pushed to the background when the evening’s first band, Laughing Man, began shortly before 8 p.m. I’ve heard allegations that this band is influenced by jazz, but I wouldn’t say that’s the case.